What You Need to Know the Newlyweds and How to Cope With Relatives?

Wedding dress, white veil, pink lips, brown eyes. For you it is a miracle of miracles, for it you become the best of the brides ...

As is well known stormy relationship between a man and a woman ends a marriage, or one of its addresses. And if earlier, before a wedding, the young had to pass a series of trials related to this ordinance, now many can be avoided:

- Parents, I'm getting married!
- Mom and Dad, I'm getting married ...

It was such a carefree attitude towards the parents (say, my life that I want, and I do) can continue to destroy marriage. Parents - people wise, but very demanding, and if the young, it is important that they are in a relationship now, the older generation, it is important that their children will in the future.

Parents are guided only by their experience and mistakes. For young marriage - as a result of their friendly relations, a kind of proof of eternal love and devotion. Though a great poet YM Lermontov wrote:
Love, but whom? At the time, not worth the effort, but it is impossible to love forever ...

With this, of course, is debatable, but either way, all points of the "I" will put the married life. And now the couple - is a link between two families: parents, husband and wife's parents. This is where problems may arise, often domestic plan.

Housing problem remains, for many young couples open. At first, have to live with their parents. Now come to the fore: mother-in-law - father-in-law. Pleasing everyone is impossible, and family conflicts to anything. It so happened that hostile attitudes and mother-in-law, father-in law considered to be traditional. Since every mother wants her child only good, it sometimes forgets the fact that excessive involvement in the fate of the young can lead to family drama.

But the paradoxes inherent in our lives, it happens that the mother-in-law in zyate denotes no soul, and the test once all eyeing with suspicion of her husband's daughter. Often this is because a lot of love for her child, the fear that her daughter might offend, to hurt her. Father, most often, does not want to see that my daughter has grown and she has her own family.

The time of the first:
Daughter to explain her father that she loves this man. He (her husband) - its support and protection, and it is the man for the role of the father of her children. Further, the husband and wife need to talk to his father, as befits a man.

Moment Two:
It so happens that my mother my husband (in-law) can not find mutual understanding with the young bride. Love for my son - it is understandable, but sometimes such a boundless love becomes a stumbling block in family relationships. As is known, two housewives in one kitchen does not get along, and this household's theorem is proven. Women tend rivalry, and there is no longer important, because someone: her husband, son or brother. The main thing - it's a man. Mom (mother in law) says that no other woman can not love her child as she is. Mother-in-first tries to teach all the young in law, thereby undermining the authority of the matchmaker, then insisted on his ...

In such situations, suffering mostly the same man, because of which, indeed, the entire race. Quarrel between two loving and loved woman experiences it as painful as the repair. As a result, the loser may go and my mother in, and the young wife. Worst of all, if peace and solace to the man begins to look on the side. That's when the problems begin more abruptly than in Mexican soap operas, and the victory will be in the hands of a wise woman. A young wife and mother her husband just need to find a compromise, for the happiness of her beloved husband and son. This is a great deal of work on oneself, one must be able to hear if there is a chance to be heard.

Moment Three:
Important in family relationships - is understanding among all family members. If a young family lives with the parents of one of the spouses, the young must be able to compromise somewhere to keep silent, to solve problems together. Parents, in turn, must respect the views of children and deprive them of their independence. You can not split the family into two opposing camps.

If young people are lucky and the housing problem resolved, then the mother-in-law and mother in law will be much softer in their councils, because in a strange monastery with its charter, not walk. But how well will gather for a great feast the whole family in the house of the young. Here a young lady and will manifest itself in all its glory.

Relationships - they are out and the relationship to them to learn and be able to build. But how? It depends on the person. Folk wisdom says: "Gentle calf sucks two ewes."