How to do it?
First, you need to understand the man that you want from men is friendship, and not something else.
That is, firstly, you need to talk to him and explain that he was only interested in you as a friend, that as a future spouse to you it is not suitable.
Do not go into details, we should not belittle his manhood.
Suffice it to say that it just is not your style, for example. To say that you value his kindness, eloquence, and so forth, but it just - is not your type.
By the way, before the man said it all, to soften the blow, do not forget to make a man a compliment and highlight its advantages, its winning features. Compliment must necessarily be sincere and truthful.
Of course, there is a chance that after the man of your words just turn around and leave.But there is a chance that he will agree with this situation and really become your friend.
You'll call back, chat, maybe go somewhere together, and this relationship will remain friendly. That is, any hints on the future life together and sex is no longer. Here you can clearly define its position. In this case, stop flirting with him, to refrain from gestures that a man may be regarded ambiguously. Do not dress for it and try to lure him to behave modestly.
That is translating into the category of relations of friendship. Almost like a girlfriend, we can say attitude.
Those men who do not like the role of a friend, turn around and simply go away from you. And do not refer such a deed to his account. Since all people are different and can not be held around absolutely everyone. Just remember you. If a man offers you friendship and you hope for more, it is unlikely that you will want to continue a relationship with him.
Therefore, if a man makes such a decision, you should not condemn him for it. Someone will be with you, some do not. And it is absolutely normal.
Friendship implies mutual pastime mutual support. Of those men who agree to become your friends, it is unlikely all the polls will be the names of friends in the full sense of the word.
Most will simply pass into the category of friends with whom you regularly call back periodically communicate at the level of "hi-bye." This is normal.
Or do you want to be friends with absolutely all men with whom you have ever come across? I do not understand why you all this male harem? The fact that some men would take forever, perfectly normal, so be it.
Therefore, I advise you just to talk with a man, explain the situation, well, the choice to leave behind the man. As he decides, so be it.
Good luck!
First, you need to understand the man that you want from men is friendship, and not something else.
That is, firstly, you need to talk to him and explain that he was only interested in you as a friend, that as a future spouse to you it is not suitable.
Do not go into details, we should not belittle his manhood.
Suffice it to say that it just is not your style, for example. To say that you value his kindness, eloquence, and so forth, but it just - is not your type.
By the way, before the man said it all, to soften the blow, do not forget to make a man a compliment and highlight its advantages, its winning features. Compliment must necessarily be sincere and truthful.
Of course, there is a chance that after the man of your words just turn around and leave.But there is a chance that he will agree with this situation and really become your friend.
You'll call back, chat, maybe go somewhere together, and this relationship will remain friendly. That is, any hints on the future life together and sex is no longer. Here you can clearly define its position. In this case, stop flirting with him, to refrain from gestures that a man may be regarded ambiguously. Do not dress for it and try to lure him to behave modestly.
That is translating into the category of relations of friendship. Almost like a girlfriend, we can say attitude.
Those men who do not like the role of a friend, turn around and simply go away from you. And do not refer such a deed to his account. Since all people are different and can not be held around absolutely everyone. Just remember you. If a man offers you friendship and you hope for more, it is unlikely that you will want to continue a relationship with him.
Therefore, if a man makes such a decision, you should not condemn him for it. Someone will be with you, some do not. And it is absolutely normal.
Friendship implies mutual pastime mutual support. Of those men who agree to become your friends, it is unlikely all the polls will be the names of friends in the full sense of the word.
Most will simply pass into the category of friends with whom you regularly call back periodically communicate at the level of "hi-bye." This is normal.
Or do you want to be friends with absolutely all men with whom you have ever come across? I do not understand why you all this male harem? The fact that some men would take forever, perfectly normal, so be it.
Therefore, I advise you just to talk with a man, explain the situation, well, the choice to leave behind the man. As he decides, so be it.
Good luck!
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