He tries all to please, and precisely because What he is trying to please everyone, He does not like anyone.
Unfortunately, I do not remember who wrote these lines, but are captured very accurately!
You can not please everybody!
And yet ...
When you please others, they forgive your mistakes, relate to you better, more lenient, and generally make your life easier. Much!
Idle Americans even figured out that even the employees of large firms, employees, salaries can vary up to 15% with the same qualifications, but for different supervisor. Revenue is pretty unsympathetic and seller, running on a percentage of the transaction may differ by orders of magnitude (tens, hundreds and sometimes thousands of times)!
In general, cause sympathy is simply good!
Therefore, we begin immediately to learn this difficult case.
Here are a few simple rules:
1. Smile! Sincerely, generally, have fun! A fake smile only hurt you, unless you're a professional actor (or actress, who sleeps in every woman).
2. Ask for advice. This raises the self esteem of another person and is not perceived as flattery.
3. Ask for help for your small, easy for another person's service. If he fails, at least thank him for what he heard you. If you refer to it again, your chances to get what you want to be much higher.
4. Create a semblance of similarity with another person. People tend to sympathize with those who are similar to themselves at least somewhat.
5. To pay compliments. First, in the case, then, with increasing professionalism, and for no reason, just because!
6. Never speak about the missing person is bad, but good! No comments.
7. If you absolutely do not agree with the reviewer, you must first agree in the details and do not settle in the main. Then to you will be treated with greater sympathy, even if you insist on his own.
8. Talk less, listen more! Most people feel genuine sympathy for a man who can "complain". Just please do not disclose another's secret. And yet, listening, be sure to Demonstrate feedback, even if affirmative nod.
9. Increase your physical attractiveness, physical activity. If you're over thirty, try to look younger than his years. This applies not only to women!
10. Often mention the name of a person in a conversation with him. Name - is the key to the soul of another person. Turning to the stranger, first find out his name.
11. If you're upset about something or frustrated, try to calm down. Irritated people automatically provokes a negative reaction. Frustrated, unfortunately, too.
12. Demonstrate humility!
Clever and no one likes boasters! Remember how many privileges took Ivan the Fool (and the princess as a wife and half his kingdom into the bargain)!
Still, the most important advice.
Stay himself (itself) is. The most charismatic people - those who in all conditions remain ourselves!
Unfortunately, I do not remember who wrote these lines, but are captured very accurately!
You can not please everybody!
And yet ...
When you please others, they forgive your mistakes, relate to you better, more lenient, and generally make your life easier. Much!
Idle Americans even figured out that even the employees of large firms, employees, salaries can vary up to 15% with the same qualifications, but for different supervisor. Revenue is pretty unsympathetic and seller, running on a percentage of the transaction may differ by orders of magnitude (tens, hundreds and sometimes thousands of times)!
In general, cause sympathy is simply good!
Therefore, we begin immediately to learn this difficult case.
Here are a few simple rules:
1. Smile! Sincerely, generally, have fun! A fake smile only hurt you, unless you're a professional actor (or actress, who sleeps in every woman).
2. Ask for advice. This raises the self esteem of another person and is not perceived as flattery.
3. Ask for help for your small, easy for another person's service. If he fails, at least thank him for what he heard you. If you refer to it again, your chances to get what you want to be much higher.
4. Create a semblance of similarity with another person. People tend to sympathize with those who are similar to themselves at least somewhat.
5. To pay compliments. First, in the case, then, with increasing professionalism, and for no reason, just because!
6. Never speak about the missing person is bad, but good! No comments.
7. If you absolutely do not agree with the reviewer, you must first agree in the details and do not settle in the main. Then to you will be treated with greater sympathy, even if you insist on his own.
8. Talk less, listen more! Most people feel genuine sympathy for a man who can "complain". Just please do not disclose another's secret. And yet, listening, be sure to Demonstrate feedback, even if affirmative nod.
9. Increase your physical attractiveness, physical activity. If you're over thirty, try to look younger than his years. This applies not only to women!
10. Often mention the name of a person in a conversation with him. Name - is the key to the soul of another person. Turning to the stranger, first find out his name.
11. If you're upset about something or frustrated, try to calm down. Irritated people automatically provokes a negative reaction. Frustrated, unfortunately, too.
12. Demonstrate humility!
Clever and no one likes boasters! Remember how many privileges took Ivan the Fool (and the princess as a wife and half his kingdom into the bargain)!
Still, the most important advice.
Stay himself (itself) is. The most charismatic people - those who in all conditions remain ourselves!
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